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Minimizing the impact that divorce has on your child


Minimizing the impact that divorce has on your child

On Behalf of | May 14, 2019 | Firm News |

As a divorcing parent, you may be concerned about the effect that your divorce will have on your child. Unfortunately, some children suffer significantly as a result of their parents’ divorce. They may have unaddressed fears about the split, and they may internalize certain negative emotions by blaming themselves. This, in turn, can have implications on their grades at school and future prospects.

It is important to understand the psychology of children when dealing with such issues. Children do not think in the same way that adults do. However, this does not mean that they are unaware of conflicts and marital issues. By taking simple steps to communicate with your child and by seeking to truly understand them, you will be able to work through this challenging time by their side.

Don’t pretend that there is no problem

It’s common for parents to be fearful of speaking to their children about divorce. As a result, they sometimes avoid the issue altogether. This can be very damaging to children of any age, since they may become distressed about the changes that are occurring. Instead, you should try to be as honest and neutral as possible around your children, and speak to them about the divorce in an age-appropriate way.

Give your children an opportunity to be vulnerable and express their fears

Try not to discuss the important subjects of divorce and child custody at inconvenient times with your child, such as in the car or when grocery shopping. Instead, you should plan for such conversations, and address the topic when your child is in a space in which they feel comfortable. This can help your child to ask questions that concern them, and it will give you the opportunity to comfort them effectively.

Don’t criticize the other parent

It’s possible that you will be feeling anger or frustration toward the other parent, but it is important that you shield your child from these negative sentiments. Instead, try to explain things in an unbiased way.

If you are planning to file for a divorce in Texas, it is important that you plan appropriately as well as understand the legal implications that a divorce will likely have.